Today I heard Mother Angelica on EWTN talking about Faith, Hope and Love and how they affect us in the good and bad times in our lives. She explained the role of Faith, Hope and Love in our lives, especially as they relate to God. She reminded me of how important these three words are in how we handle crisis. When things are going good in our lives, we are thankful and we should be thankful to God because we have Faith in His existence. When we do thank God we have Hope in His nature; in His ability to allow us to experience good things. In good times we Love God and feel Love from Him because we have Faith and Hope. So when things are going well we believe in Faith, Hope and Love, but what happens when we have a crisis? Or what should happen when we have a crisis or are experiencing bad times? It is in the bad times that Faith, Hope and Love are allowed to grow. It is in the bad times that we exercise our belief in Faith, Hope and Love. We decide to believe what God says in Holy Scripture about how God will meet our needs (Phil 4:19), how He is with us and will help us (Isaiah 41:10), how all things work together for good if I love Him (Romans 8:28), how He is our Rock, Salvation, Defense, and Fortress (Psalm 62:6), etc. Be believe that God can be miraculous for us, if that is needed, but that He can also bring good out of the bad situations. God can make lemonade from the lemons in our life. But why does it seem that bad times last longer than they should? Or why does it seem our prayers may go unanswered?
First, let’s look at the idea of time? God’s vision is perfect; it spans all aspects of time. I once heard that time to God is not linear and to Him 1000 years is like a day. So He will answer our prayers in His time and in His way, with His perfect vision. Mother Angelica explained God’s vision like this: Imagine cars driving on the road, you as an individual are driving in one of those cars. You can see a few hundred yards in front of yourself, or just the next few minutes, but God sees you and your life from up above. From His position He can see how today’s navigation of the car will impact things in future years and even generations. He can also see how our lives are intertwined with each other, not only now but in the future. So, some detour taken today, may be needed for a time in our lives decades from now, and will decades from now, interact and effect people we do not know today. That is why we cannot be God or even play God, we cannot see more than a few hundred yards or a few minutes ahead of this moment, right now, only God can. So rationally, would we rather put our trust in the driver of the car with limited vision and foresight? or would we rather put our trust (faith, hope and love) in the driver of all space and time? Why is it so easy for us to accept this analogy about a car but so hard for us to truly accept it in our lives and the lives of our loved ones? Are we lacking in Faith? Hope? Love? or all 3? I would guess that on any given day we may be severely lacking and on other days not as much. So how do we strengthen our faith, hope, and love when things are going good, so that we can exercise them when things go bad? I would suggest these three things: 1) go to mass on Sundays and strive to understand all aspects of the mass, so that it can be a powerful experience each and every week, 2) take advantage of the Sacrament of Confession at least once every 10 weeks and 3) spend 15-30 minutes in prayer daily with our lord (say the Rosary, read Scripture, talk to God, buy yourself a Catholic Book of prayers, so that you always have a prayer handy; one prayer you might consider praying is the Litany of Humility).


